My youngest son has been home since Tuesday- school rang - with really bad headaches..got him to the Drs Wed..Optometrist Thursday..Yesterday..decided as I was working again..to leave him home with Nic..Back off to the Drs again today..
His eye sight is good..though we have to go back in a year as his short vision isn't as good as his long vision..( I could have told them that!!..He can't see anything right in front of him..like his shoes...book ..LOL)
Just before I had to leave for work yesterday..he breaks down..crying..He is angry because his brother has come back into our life..into his room..taken over (to him anyway) ..can't understand that his father 'kicked' brother out...but most importantly is upset because ultimately he will miss his brother again ..if/when he goes back.
My son doesn't 'do' change very well at all..part of his ODD..I topped it off because over the years he has spread himself out in their bedroom and I asked if we could clear a draw again for his brother..that meant re-arranging things..
Considering we just re-arranged the lounge room for the Xmas tree- even though I involved him every step of the way has been too much..
So I am pretty sure he has been experiencing 'cluster' type headaches..caused by stress over tension..he has had them on both sides of his temple and on days..running down his jaw line.
He seems better since his outburst..he has released some of his angst..
Big brother does want to ultimately go back to his home with his Dad..just hasn't because of the way he has been spoken too.. Unfortunately that won't change. He has to go back over Sunday/Monday at least as his Formal is on and his friends are all catching a limo from there. ( least EX didn't cancel that)
I took BB to catch a bus in Newcastle yesterday from him finishing work so he could see the Jets play in Sydney. I was to pick him and his friend up at whatever time they rang on the way home ( 1am approx). Ex rang and sounded really surprised that I would do that.. I reminded him that I had already done this on another occasion because he wouldn't. I think he wants son back so he offered..so I let him..I texted son and he was ok with it ..I told him he could ring me as back up if needed. I was glad I didn't have to as we have had storms all night.
I think he will go home this weekend..so I will have too watch 13 yr old and keep talking..
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its hard to be everything to everyone sometimes isnt it. Sometimes with kids its best to just go fuck it and turn the music up and go la la la I cant hear yous arguing.
Kids wake up in the morning and its a brand new world.
Look after you own sanity :)
ps..year the eye problem would cause head aches and potential learning probs. Correct glasses will solve it.
thats so funny..acutally I have done that on occasion.( music up..I don't think I can look after my sanity though..its prob too late..LOL)
yes you are definitely beyond help.....bangin' ya head against the wall will do that.
Now you tell me!!!
is your blog over here just for viewing..no comments??
like the poetry..and the family pics..very nice..
I used to have comments on but the comments were too boring
Hey gorgeous!
So your oldest will be going back to his dad's for now?
It must be hard for all of you!
I have everything for chrissy! it's sitting on the lounge room floor... waiting to be wrapped! I have a headache already... the amount that I have spent! I wont be able to afford to move!!!
I was this close.... to inviting this middle aged guy up for coffee, he lives in my building! he's a masser ... not good looking... but hey who am I to be fussy? I'm sooo desperate!!! but like a good girl... I didn't do it!
HI Sassy..
I don't bother wrapping all my pressies.. we have a santa sack..I just wrap a few from me to them....gets me out of wrapping..even if most of them dont believe in ol saint nick!!
I am broke..my eldest son has been eating me out of house and home..I have to go shopping again tomorrow on a very tight budget.
soooo close..hmmmm..you havent spent $$$ on the most important Xmas gift for yourself then have you?? you gotta get a new one soon...
don't worry..every now and again. I think about something like that..except I have too many kids at home all the time!!
when do the kids come home??
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