Well its still raining off and on..teemed down last night..
I have started a stupid project over these school hol's..moved my sons bedroom around..looks so much better but now the rest of the house is a disaster. I have so much to sort through..I have to get motivated and hurry up and finish it.
I got rid of one of my lounge chairs..a 2.5 seater. it was great for the kids and their friends but I have hated it since Ex bought it. It was and sofa one still is, too big for me to sit on comfortably for long. So my Dad bought me two 2nd hand chairs that have built in foot rests.. They are not too up-to-date in the looks department but they are comfy for me.. the kids were horrified but now think they are ok and always want to sit on the spare one..( more arguements for me to listen too!!LOL)
My Ex came around last night whinging as now he has 'no phone and internet' because of me..taking child support payments from him. He had our eldest son with him to do his homework at my house but son got shits and sat in car. I asked Ex not to talk about CSA payments in front of the kids but he wouldn't stop So I told him to F-off and not to come back. ( don't like my chances on that one..)
He is really angry with me..I feel it has started since CSA started taking money off him and then he discovered that I had changed my name. He is turning quite nasty. I will have to watch him again. Before he was just plain crazy..dellusional now he is worse. I will have to be careful because of the kids.. its a fine rope to balance on with him.
I know he is p-d also about the garden out the front. I have been removing lots of plants and putting what I like in.. the garden used to be his baby.
It is my life now but I think he is getting worse in head.
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hi 'L'harry,
Yes it is still raining. I lost all your contact details when my computer went down. It will take me a while to get back i the swing of thinngs.
good luck with the bedroom- we are about to start painting the house. CSA- new laws are coming in soon so all will be changed again!
Hugs and rainbows
send me an email so I have your address again.
It must be that time of year for spring cleaning....As for the chairs i`m the same...We have an older type sofa and chairs which I don`t go much on the colour but I knit trow covers in my favourite colours....
Please be careful with that ex of yours....I worry about you ....You have described him quite well...lol...
hi lil harry, i was commenting yesterday when the kids arrived so don't think it was successful. i agree with mandy, your ex might get dangerous. be careful. i like a comfy chair too. my couch isn't quite right but i can justify getting rid of it and getting something more suitable. never mind. hope you are ok. it's started raining here (adelaide) too. yay. have a nice long w/end. :) Fran
hello lil harry,
Been trying to rain here today, it did rain a bit overnight.
Material things, who cares what your chairs are like it's best to be comfortable first.
It must be hard on all of you about the money part especially for you X - but that is the law and the sooner he can accept what is legal, the better.
Take care,
Margaret
Have had rain and rain and more rain here also and it has started to be to much although today has been fine so hopefully it has stopped for a while.
I hope your Ex doesn't get dangerous towards you or the kids. Some men don't like to see the ex getting on with their life, my daughter Tasha has had problems with her ex (Blains dad). Since she has met a new guy he is always trying to tell her what to do and that he doesn't want the new guy around HIS son. Also doesn't want him paying for his son or buying things for his son although he doesn't pay anything expecting Tasha to do it all and pay for everything. Yes I know he loves Blain but he is such child himself and doesn't want to get a job as it would cut into his sleeping time and X Box time. It is just good to see that Tasha is so over his childish behaviour that happened when she met this new guy. Sorry I went on a bit there.
Hi Lil Harry, I recently went back to bb, and now I find myself swamped just getting around to all 3 blogs (not to mention utube and myspace which I never get around to at all). I am presently trying to catch up on all neglected comments and reading.
Regarding Exs. grrrrr I'm still paying 35 years later AND, now also thru my daughter's in-laws who are 'straight' and regard me as vermin ?? This is my son-in-laws (SIL)way of getting back at my 'interferences' in the way he treats my daughter. One can't win. Even though I am a model citizen LIES AND SLANDER will beat you down. Luckily, I have my head screwed on and NOW follow thru on all bullshit, regardless of how insignificant it may seem at the time.
When my SILs Dad recently bagged me for being a liar and a nutcase, I stood my ground. My daughter naturally stood by SIL and it did make the liar! I love her, but for the first time I said FIXXX ITT Niki. Bless her little heart she did and now we are closer than ever. Don't know if advice will help but, it sure helped me writing it down :)
PS Couldnt get thru to your latest post.
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